Embodied Couples Coaching for Enlivened Intimacy
“People think that intimacy is about sex. But intimacy is about truth. When you realize you can tell someone your truth, when you can show yourself to them, when you stand in front of them bare and their response is 'you're safe with me'- that's intimacy.” - Taylor Jenkins Reid
Over time, every couple develops patterns of physical and emotional intimacy—some that serve the relationship and others that may limit true connection.
In our coaching sessions, you’ll have the space to slow down, step outside of familiar roles, and explore what you truly desire. This is an opportunity to deepen trust, enhance communication, and bring more presence and pleasure into your relationship.
I will hold a safe, supportive container, offering deep listening, guidance, and tools to help you navigate your needs, express boundaries, and cultivate deeper intimacy. Together, we’ll explore touch, connection, and the patterns that shape your relationship—creating space for greater understanding, appreciation, and love.
Topics that have been brought:
- Communicating needs & desires
- Navigating differences & blockages
- Finding new ways to connect
- Expanding the touch repertoire
- Nourishing the relationship
- Getting triggered! Shutting down!
- Cultivating presence in giving and receivng
- Balancing self care and couple care
- Exploring Tantric practices & energetic sexuality
- Difference of masculine & feminine energy
- Creating safety, playfulness & depth
My offer to you:
Rediscover intimacy, connection, and communication with a personalised coaching session designed to transform your relationship.
Each session begins with an open conversation about your patterns, challenges, and desires. From there, we’ll explore touch, communication exercises, and rituals you can integrate into daily life—helping you and your partner connect on a deeper level.
Use this time to share, listen, set boundaries, and learn practical tools to enhance intimacy and understanding. Whether you're seeking more ease in your dynamic, a renewed sense of passion, or guidance in navigating challenges, this experience will be tailored to your unique relationship needs.
Before we meet, I’ll invite you to share your intentions, so I can craft a session just for you—one that blends conversation, guided exercises, and bodywork to support your journey together.
Fees
First session: 4 hours - £360
Subsequent sessions can be 3 or 4 hours: £270 or £360
Testimonials & Feedback
'We have worked with Anja for a number of years to enable our relationship to discover new places which help us cross thresholds (not always easy) to reach our fuller selves individually, and together. This work has been, and continues to be invaluable to us. I feel the ripples we create together not only benefit us but travel through our children, family, communities and the wider world.' L. and K., Sussex
'Anja surpassed our expectations in helping us deepen our connection as a couple. She’s a wise, intuitive and insightful guide with a great capacity to observe what was unfolding between us and then reflect back to us in easily understood language, with gentle exercises to explore the emerging issues. We particularly appreciated the experiential and embodied nature of Anja’s work encouraging us to move from our heads into our hearts, allowing us to let go of much of the ‘noise’ and stories which had been interrupting intimacy. She supported us in being able to reveal greater levels of vulnerability opening us to deeper truths within ourselves. Her work is both accessible and profound and we would warmly recommend Anja to any partnership considering couples coaching.'
P. and S., Kent
'The session was profoundly insightful, challenging and helpful. Like a wise friend pointing to the hurts and power in me.' Z. and J., East Sussex